| First of all, I hope that you will not judge me. I am having an affair after being in a 36 year marraige where my husband has constantly lied and been unfaithful to me. Having said that, I have considered leaving my husband for this man that I am in love with. The problem is I have no doubt that he could be faithful to me, but, I have a problem with him going to lunch with other women. He has lots of women friends, and especially, one whom he will "drop everything" if she comes around. After he has been around her he is usually critical of me, which, makes me suspect that she is giving him her insights about me. Yesterday he went to lunch with her for 2 hours and now he is telling me HE WANTS OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP UNLESS I WILL LEAVE THE MARRAIGE NOW. The problem is I have a 24 year old with Aspergers living at home and I don't want to upset him so I am trying to take it slowly and gradually. Well, i guess he has decided it's too slow fo r him. I also feel like if I left that my son would be more motivated to leave and get a life as I have made it too comfortable for him there. This man is the only thing that makes me feel alive . . . |
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