Wife was sexually abused as child and hates sex

My wife was abused as a child. she hates sex, touch or anything that can lead to sex. she has sexual fantasy I can't fulfill. I'm at the point I want out of the marriage, but I feel like if I could get her help i could turn this around. Need some kind of advice going crazy. We have been married 13 years and I can't see life with out her, But I would like to have a quality sex life. I have talked to her about it until I just don't want to talk about it anymore. She seems to not want help and I'm getting depressed from thinking about it all the time.

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