| Hi. I'm new to this forum so I hope I'm posting to the right place. I've been married for 8 years. We have 3 kids together. He's actually a great person. Works hard, no abuse, drinking, affairs etc. The only problem is there's just no romance in this relationship period. The only things we do together are work, care for the kids or other necessity things. I've told him on countless times that I need occasional dates or some fun time together and he swears up and down things will get better but it never changes. I've gotten tired of complaining. Although the sex itself isn't bad its just like I'm disconnected from him because it's the only thing we do together and I'm just bored. What makes matters worse is that he seems completely content and when I tell him we need to see a counselor he seems hurt and can't understand why I'm not happy. If I listen to him talk it sounds like he's the most affectionate person in the world. In fact, i lef t him for a a few months and missed him so much i came back (plus the kids wanted to be around him). I'm so unhappy but it feels like i'm the only one. Even my family loves him so i feel like I just have to figure out a way to bear it. Has anyone had this experience? I really need help. |
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