Together for 3 Years With a 2 Year Old Son (not married) Friend Zone?

Hi All. So to be very brief, my now ex and I got together 3 1/2 years ago, she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. She cheated on me when we first got together. I cheated a couple years later, we were technically broke up.. And 4 months ago she cheated on me again. Now w/o explaining the details, I'm glad we broke up. Needed to happen. My question is this, is it possible to be in the friend zone after all of this? I ask because 2 weeks ago she texted me and said she missed me, this was after a full month of no communication. She's still w the guy she left me for, but for the past couple weeks we've been seeing each other. No sex yet but alot of the other stuff. Last night we spent the night together for the first time in a hotel and while laying in bed she started crying and said it felt different, but was persistent in saying she still loved me. I got upset, but tried to be understanding. I told her she probably does love me, but isn't in love w me. She didn't really answer that, and it was late so I don't remember everything. But she mentioned that I know her better than she knows herself, that we have alot of the same stuff in common, ect, that I was her best friend. I got dressed and told her I was going to head to my office and work, but she begged me to stay there with her. The next day we decided to try and work things out and move back in together, but a few hours later we decided to put more thought into it. She later texted me saying she wanted to stay friends for our sons sake, I let her know that in the future we could, but I wasn't able to right now. I told her we should stop seeing each other for now. She then went 180 and said that she wasn't going to let me go and for me to get a place. She wanted to spend this last night with her bf though, saying that she needed closure, was just going to talk to him no sex. But she insisted on staying the night. So I called everything off. Keep in mind that she'll be 20 in September. What I'm making from everything is that she doesn't want to loose me as a friend. I don't feel like she still loves me even though I point the indications out, she says she wants to be with me and everything associated with that. But I feel like she's just doing this to try and make me happy so that I stay friends with her. I think she still likes her boyfriend and because he spent the day begging for him back, started to miss him and did in plan on having sex with him. My question is given our circumstance, is it likely that I am indeed in the friend zone?

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