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Reconciliation - When do you know it begins?

My signature has my separation link so brief back story.
I am 48, wife is 42. 24 years of marriage. Last son graduated last week of May. W planned on walking away 6/7/13. Household had issues. I asked if there was problem. She told me she wanted out. "I love you but not in love with you" speech.
We spent last 7 weeks living together and talking. Finally got moved so she could begin healing, expecting 1 year location separation.

I feel we are R now or we are real close. What do you fine people think is the standard of saying R is in progress.
The only thing that keeps me from saying we are, is she still has doubts of trust and sometimes say it may take 2 years so she can fix herself. She admitted yesterday that she is working on herself now and is letting God work on her too. She loves my changes and we both agree that god has pulled off a miracle on our marriage.
Today she told me as she held our wedding hands together. "Look at this (both rings were together) This move does not change anything between us. "
We will be totally exclusive and see each other regularly, even sexually at times. Would you consider this separation close to R?




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