Need my next steps for success

First post. Need my next moves. Found out wife was with an aquantaince for a while. How long not sure. We have a 7 yr. Old and 3 yr. Old. Married for 7 years. She moved out the day before our anniversary July 3. I did the needy pushy thing like you all know too well. She will still not admit infidelity. Says just friends. I know better. Have plenty of info. We are nice to each other and have a good talking relationship. Even better now really. I have bettered my self and am doing the 180 pretty good. Still had my moments. At this point I need to know weather to press the being honest thing more or leave it be. I know she needs space from me either way which she has now. Cordjual for the kids and I am doing my best to Hold my path of happiness either way it goes. Do I give it a month to let her be or tell her rules of seperation or is that pointless. Do I just worry about me. Or do I ask and show her things she needs to think about. She has depression issues. Issues with me In the past as well as a knack of running from issues. I think I am the best thing for her and love her dearly but also will not be walked over. I have read a lot here so far and know the rules of reconciliation and know the basics of what I need to do. But is there anything I can do for her to get her out of limbo and on the path of reconciliation or freedom. Or is time the first step with no more deep conversation. I know I can't make her love me but also want to show her there is hope with hard work if she chooses to do so. Posted via Mobile Device

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