| My husband apologized to me for not initiating (yet again) the night before, and for some reason it was just really upsetting. He didn't really have a reason except that he was tired. I hate that excuse because he never seems to be too tired for other things like staying up all night playing games or watching movies by himself. I asked him if he has a low sex drive and he said no, not at all, so I asked how often he masturbates and he said takes care of himself almost daily. :scratchhead: So what does this mean? Am I not attractive enough? Is it too much work/effort? We've had a conversation about the lack of sex pretty much weekly for the past few months. He doesn't respond when I initiate and I told him last week that I can't do that anymore and he needs to initiate when he wants sex... which he swears he does but still has yet to initiate. He swears up and down that it's not me, that he does find me attractive and think about me, that it's not that it's too much work... but then he does nothing and he'll use excuses later on like he can't initiate unless he KNOWS I am in the mood (this was never a problem in the beginning of our relationship/marriage, he initiated all of the time) and I don't buy that excuse anyway. I bring this up a lot, he knows I'm in the mood. He also said he rarely if ever looks at porn and I believe him. So I'm just confused... is it lazyness? Right now I just feel so incredibly unwanted and unsexy. Why would he choose NOT to have sex when he has a willing, excited wife available to him anytime he's home. At this point I feel like I'm forcing him into something he doesn't want, and the fact that he doesn't want it is so depressing. Any insight would be appreciated... | |||
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