My Wife Is So Frigid a Light Comes On When Her Legs Open...

Second marriage for both and before we tied the knot, things were hot. Then she hit menopause and bam. What was hot is not. We're in 50s. I've always been HD and with the help of some Androgel and blue pill, as well as a daily gym workout am in good if not great shape and with a healthy and adventurous libido. The wife changed and it's frustrating for us both. She's an engineer in a demanding job that has her traveling at least two weeks of every month. Used to be when she came home,we'd have wild monkey sex, and be knocking boots at least once a day until she left. Not now...she's tired from the travels, she wants to sleep in, she's not in the mood. Won't say "no" but no response to touch, caress, or cuddles. Plays possum. Never accepted oral sex for herself...icky, and grudgingly gave it to me, but last time it was 1 minute and jaw cramp. But, wait there's more...she can't drink while at work. Seems to be making up for it at home. I stopped all alcohol a year ago. She starts just after noon and pretty much drinks until bedtime. We do eat out a lot but she drinks regardless of where we are. Has been to doc who prescribed hormone cream. Used the tube and no impact and she didn't continue. Have we had The Talk? Yes. She cried and said she didn't realize. Changed for short time but back to unsatisfactory now. I want my sexy wife back.

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