| Hello, I have been reading here for a long time and figured it was time to post as I need some help. I have been married for 2 years. We have 3 kids. 2 are mine and 1 his, from previous marriages. Things are great except when my husband gets angry. He will not do it in front of the kids, but for example, yesterday we had an argument and when we have a disagreement I tend to clam up and this makes him upset. We always take it to another room, but he gets loud cause I wont talk to him. I don't know why I get that way, I just do. I know I should talk, but I just get mad and shut down. Well yesterday when I did he kept saying "look at me" and when I didn't get grabbed me and threw me on the bed and choked me, he did that twice. Until I talked it out. I had to suck on ice afterwards. He asked why I was eating ice and I told him he hurt me and he said he didn't grab me that hard. During the fight he said he think I "like" it when he gets that way. He ha s shoved me before but never anything like this. I made him promise me he would never lay another hand on me and he said "its not like I break your bones, the worst I do is leave bruises, your tough". Then he promised to never do it again as long as I talk to him, that its my fault. Is he really doing this because he thinks I "like" it? That is insane! I have only stayed this long because I have hope for him. People can change right? |
No comments:
Post a Comment