Don't want to be a step mother

I've been married to my husband 2+ years.And we've known eachother for about 7+ years.And we dated a year+ before we got married. He has a son which is eleven now. About three years ago, when i was dating my husband. I watched his son for the entire summer because i was out of work at the time.This is not something that i was thrilled about doing, but i did it for my husband which was my boyfriend at the time.I don't have any children of my own and i don't want any because i simply don't want the responsibility.My husband has a problem with me not wanting to treat him like a stepmother should.Don't get me wrong, i get along with his son.But io don'nt want to be a mother in any form/sense of the word.I enjoy my freedom too much.Maybe my husband and i should have really discussed this issue before we got married, and maybe we wouldn't have gotton married. Idk. But i feel when he gets his son in the summer and on holidays he should take full responsi blilty for him and leave me out of it. Not to sound selfish or anything... but i will watch hinm sometimes if i want to.But i feel i have the choice to say yay or nay to watching him.Like i said before i don't want the responsibilty. Let me know what you think.

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