| I'm recently divorced, and have been dating for a while. I came to the conclusion that I never wanted to be in anymore "serious" relationships again. However lately I found myself desiring the closes and intimacy that comes with that. I have meet several woman in my new single-dom but no one has hit that button until now. I met a beautiful, intelligent, and all around great woman. We have been talking/ dating for 3 months now, "not a long time" I know. But I really like her. I feel like she is someone I could potentially marry and I told her this. We agree to not have sex until marriage if thats the case. We verbally agree to date with that intent of a relationship and marriage. Though she is a good woman whom I am highly attracted to physically and internally, I dont feel the interest level is the same. I'm usually the one who has to initate a date or meeting. When I don't see or talk to her for a while I miss her but I don't think thats mutual . We have been on over 10 dates including 3 days together on a out of the country vacation. All my doing except one time. She recently was gone for 4 days to a family reunion and I texted her on the 4th day and ask jokingly ,did you miss me. She responded "Nope to busy enjoying my family". She has never expresses to me her interest level, or returns my compliments and when I asked her, she ask me how I felt and she just said yep, I feel the same. This is unusual for me, I am a tall, attractive, fit man who modestly speaking have woman coming at me all the time. She talks about herself and her life mostly which I am happy to listen to but her lack of interest in my life and happenings concerns me. Should I move on or hang in there and see if this changes. I've never dating anyone without sex which draws your closer to people ,so don't know if this is par for the course. She is a very unique woman who I totally smitten with. Is this karma for the hearts I've broken? Need insi ght. Please!!! |
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