| I really appreciate your reading this, so i'll be concise: Me and my ex had been friends for months following a short lived relationship... This soon lead to terrible arguments (for 3+ hours a day, for 2/3 days at a time) about her wanting us getting back together/not having talked for two days, say (due to my studying, etc). Due to this, i was constantly depressed & lagged behind on schoolwork, which was very important to me, so i decided to cease all contact.I started blanking her in person, blocked her on FB and ignored her texts, which said that She was distraught; not wanting to live and crying constantly :( We argued occasionally still (i admit i got harsh in tone, but i never swore & i tried to be considerate) but i persisted ignoring all the same, as i just couldn't cope.. 3.5 months have passed and, although somewyhat lonely & missing her friendship a TINY bit still, and also worried i have a now ruined future due to exam performance, my life is no longer complicated + i'm happy(ish). Anyway, she texted me recently, now moved on (perhaps wanting our friendship a bit by my reckoning), reminding me how much i hurt her; I apologised as sincerely as i could, but she explained she will forever resent me. So: Did i do the right thing?? What would you yhave done in my position? Am I a bad person? Is there anyway to make it up to her/be amicable? ? etc Thanks for your time.. | |||
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