This, too, shall pass.

He is not on the winning end of our custody / support dispute. Therefore, he is attacking me verbally from every angle possible. Joint decisions WE made together in the past that is now blaming solely me for. Lifestyle and purchase decisions. Marriage decisions. All from the past, like years ago. We had since moved upward and onward. Had a life together, a home, and finally, a child. He masks over the decisions of his affair by blaming me for decisions from 6-8 years ago that he now uses to claim he was the victim in all this. He has conveniently forgotten how uncooperative he's been over the past several months to purposely cause me financial burdens and struggles. He has made up a new history of him being nothing less than stellar toward me. I was perfectly willing to work with him when we separated. I gave him the choice of his family, or her. There wasn't room for both, but as a family, we could move past it. . He just had to cut all contact with her. He moved out with her that day. I have gone through an emotional roller coaster since we've been apart. Denial, happy, sad, angry, furious, calm, reflecting. And now, after everything has been said and done, money spent on attorneys and ongoing court battles... I am just tired, worn out, sad and ready to move on. But, he keeps dragging it out. Weaseling out of his responsibilities to wrap up our mutual affairs. Attacking me, insulting me and my family, and accusing me of doing things I am not doing. I just want to be done, so we can move on. Thanks for listening. :(

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