Question to the cheaters..

I guess I'm just trying to understand a little better what goes on the minds of cheaters.. and i have a couple of questions to ask.. 1) Can cheaters really cheat on someone they truly love and can't live without?? Or do they feel like they dont love their spouse, in the moment. 2) During the whole affair, im sure there was a point when you knew the line was crossed, why didn't you stop? 3) Did you feel guilt while having an affair? 4) Were you ever thinking you needed/wanted to stop at some point in the affair? 5) I understand compartmentalization.. but is it really that separated? As you're having the affair and go back home to your spouse, are you really living a double life? Do you not think about your spouse when with the AP and not think about the AP when with your spouse? 6)How did you feel when the affair was found out? How did you feel at the moment, looking into your spouses face? What did you feel? 7) Would you have an affair again? I request the BS to not answer the questions with they're selfish, they're entitled, they're narcissists.. i dont disagree with you. But I really wanted to get a grasp of what really goes through the mind of a cheater when they cheat.. Thank you in advance.

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