| So after 3-4 smooth months again sht has become messed up. We r planning a trip to wifes country so she can visit parents i had sugested them getting visas to visit here instaed as ther is only 2 people traveling vs 4 me, wife, 2 kids... She became a child and told her im not interested in Going to her mom! While i only suggested them coming here instead... Her sister 19 years old is here for last year and our relationship has plummeted ... No wife and husband time, no immediate family time ... Her sisters always there! Tonight felt so excluded... Wife came home from a job made quick food and ate with sister... No one asked me if i wanted anything or wanted to join! Damn! If i cook theres always food for wife and for sister regardless if theyre home or not ... Theres always plently made... Not for me tho I had exams the last few weeks and on several occasions came home late and nothing preped for me ... Not even a phone call letting me know theres food.... I have tried to make date nights, for family outting to share responsibilities, to give her some time off from being full time mom, and nothing... I have tried to man up, to communicate and still nothing... Iam starting to feel this wont change! Tonight i told her i feel our relationship has plummeted since her sister arrived... Glad i did she says she is happy her sister is here ... Not at all concerned about our marriage at all!!! There is little reason for me to stay The kids that is it!! Dont know what to do and with sister here i am unlikely to have wife and privacy and intimate times back like a year ago... And sending sister back will only cause resentment from wife or depression Posted via Mobile Device | |||
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