Is this normal??

So my wife of 4 years has been acting strange lately. She has been spending a lot of time lately with her girl friends. I do not object to her spending time with her friends because it is needed but currently she feels that spending time with them is a priority over spending time with me. It has even gone so far that she yelled at me for trying to talk to her about it saying that i was messing up her plans to hang out with her friends. If your wife creates a sporatic event with her friends and does not try to include her husband is that alright? It seems to be going on like 5 days a week so I can't even try to arrange a date night because she is already "booked." What set me over to want to find a forum to discuss this was when she made plans to hang out with her friend and her husband to talk about how to learn photography because her husband just graduated from school. I was supposed to work and my job sent me home early because we had no patien ts. I thought it would be good to meet up with her because we had a babysitter and it would be good to have a couples night. As I called her she did not answer the first 5 times over an hour span. When i finally got a hold of her she said what do you want? I asked where she was and all and she wouldnt tell me. She said every time i go out you try to ruin my plans. I said i'm not trying to i just would like to know where you are? She refused and said dont call me again im hanging up the phone and turning it off for the rest of the night. Somehow in there trying to surprise my wife i was ruining her plans. I don't want to say she is cheating but she was with her girlfriend but i have no way of confirming that. So my question being is there a limit to how much time your wife should spend with her friends and if so should she include you in some of those plans especially if the friends are mutual? I'm not jealous by no means but it just seems rediculous to tell your significant other they are not part of the plans and if there is something else they can do because they are not a part of the plans

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