| Like was it something that your WS said/did, etc. Or was it just their whole demeanor? For me when I think about DDay I think about him saying that he was not sure what he wanted (that stands out big time in my mind) and in general his whole demeanor was very negative in regards to our marriage as well as him putting the blame on me in that he had no choice but to seek someone else out because I was not affectionate/loving/communicative, etc. etc. When I would mention good times his response was always "yes but......" I get the whole "fog" thing but still....how he acted that day still burns me. I guess when you think about these situations you always imagine the WS begging your for forgiveness and trying to win you back...instead for me it was almost reversed. I should say that for us BS's..the whole day was terrible but even years after I think that certain things stand out that are hard to forget... | |||
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