Trying to R again. He's gets skeptical & makes me wanna run. Is this the process?

We've been D for 2 yrs now. Constant contact due to our young child. I've had 2 relationships worth mentioning, he's had a couple, but have not been very successful. He blames it on still loving me. So, after constant ''I l still love you" and "it could be really good this time" I came to the acceptance of him and that we should try to R again. (we tried last year and after a week, I gave up because his negative attitude). Well, after 2 days of talking, he is back to being the Negative Nancy. It is a really downshift on my good feelings towards him when I know he is completely rejecting it in his head (when he's the one that has been wanting it!) So, my question is this - is this a normal process?? Do other people have this issue when trying to R? If anyone else has experienced this, how did you deal with this?? Thanks to anyone's constructive comments!

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