| OK ladies! do any one you get upset at your husband or boyfriend if he does his hair & shaves for work? or if he dresses casual?.My wife gets very upset at me if i comb my hair & shave or wear decent clothes to work.I manage a small towing company and as the manager i like to dress nice & go to work looking professional i never wore a suit to work but just went looking decent until i got married.1 week after we got married she started flipping out I was in the bathroom getting ready for work & she got upset because I was combing my hair she said" why do you have to do all that just for work? you dont have anyone to impress" "are you doing all that for the girls that work there?" this happened a few months ago so I started wearing the ugliest faded clothes i had i even wear the same t-shirt & jeans to work now (also wear a baseball cap & I'm breaking out with acne on my forhead & head because of the hat).just so she wont get upset.everytime we try to talk about it we get angry at eachother she accuses me of trying to impress the girls at the office she thinks they all want me( im 40 years old 330 lbs believe me none of them even look at me).then just recently she started wearing makeup to work & doing her hair & she cleans houses.I questioned it & she snapped at me & says "you dont trust me?"I am tired of going to work dressed like a bum.I was also going to the gym before we got married I lost a lil over 40lbs & gained about half that back because she dont want me going to the gym, then she complains because im tired all the time & depressed.I love her & i know she has alot of issues to deal with I just dont know what to do |
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