Frustrated

So, my STBXH left the house in December after we decided to get the divorce, which left me with a lot of the bills to pay. Which, ive been able to do, its been tight, but its getting done. The one bill we stopped paying on was the house. With everything going on with us separating, we decided to get it listed as a short sale. (This was advised to us by my attorney.) It went on the market 4 weeks ago. So fast forward to today, we get an offer on the house...awesome! When it first got listed, we were told a number of things that we needed to get together, past tax records, bank statements, mortgage statements, etc. She said she didn't really need it until we got an offer, but because i look ahead at things, I got my stuff together immediately. I told him at this time the things he needed to do. He never got it for me then. So I call him today to let him know that i NOW need this stuff from him. I told him that I need it before they can send the offer into the bank. So one of the things I need from him, is this letter of hardship that we need to send to the lender, basically asking for approval to do a short sale. I got my letter done when I was first told about it. He asks me today, "I thought you were going to do it for me." Are you freaking kidding me?? I also had asked him to call the accountant to get our tax info from last year. I asked him to do this a month ago as well. Do you think he's done it? Nope...not at all. So now I have to do it. The entire time ive been living here without him, I have rarely asked him for help with anything. Since getting the house on the market, ive asked him for 2 things....organize the basement, and mow the lawn. You would think that im pulling teeth! He's *****ed and complained because ive asked him to do 2 things for the house while we try to sell it. I haven't asked him to do anything else. Just mow the lawn and do the basement. I get so mad because his name is on the title of the house and I wasnt the only one living here for almost 9 years. But in the last few months....getting this house ready has been all on my shoulders. Am I wrong for being so irritated?

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