Do you still think about your ex?

Ladies, I really need your input on this: Do you still think about your ex? How do you forget? Here's my dilemma, I Google my ex a while back and I did not feel anything looking at his photos. Zero, nada! However, I think about him recurrently. I hate him for all the lies and the wasted years I spent with him. But I also remember how I used to love him. My honest feeling is that if I could go back in time, I wouldn't have had anything to do with that man! After almost 8 years of dating, he sent a sms saying it was over. He had done that before. But this time was different, because it was over for me too. Months later he tried to get me back, but I told him I was with someone else and did not wanted him to bother me. And that, was that. That man sucked the life out of me. He made me emotionally miserable! We had good moments, during the first year. The rest was mainly about his needs, his selfishness, lies... and me, trying to recreate what we once had. I remember looking at him and thinking, "I don't love you anymore"... but I stayed because he was sick. And I couldn't leave him like that. I eventually, choose to be free of all that and eventually met an awesome man, with whom I'm married today. Please, help me make some sense. ps.- I loved the man I thought he was.

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