I'm really extroverted and sociable; I have loads of friends and am generally pretty nice, but it seems to scare a lot of "introverted"/nice/geeky guys off as I guess I come across as rather in your face. I went out with a friend of mine (who's almost the complete opposite of me though still a pretty decent person) the other night and though he's quite a nice chap I found it so hard to get along with him and really connect. I can make friends with someone 5 minutes after I've met them, but though I tried chatting to him as much as i could and we obviously found each other attractive we just didn't connect at all. I'd make a joke and he'd completely not get it, and he doesn't have the same open attitude to other people as I do. I'm so disappointed. I've done one of those personality type things and apparently I'm an ENTJ so the partner most suited to me would be an introvert, but for some reason I just never really seem to connect as much with introverts? Most of my friends are extroverts, and in fact a lot of the people I don't get on with are introverts as they have a tendency to talk behind my back about me being too "loud" or not be open with me even though I do listen to people. Anon or delete please as I think my friend is on here! Thanks :) | |||
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Can extroverts successfully date introverts?
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