| Dday was 7/10/2011. On that day I discovered my xw was having an affair with a good friend (find my thread elsewhere in this forum) when I confronted her, she packed two bags and WALKED the five blocks to his house, we were divorced 82 days later (she wanted it quickly, I was happy to oblige) and six months later they were married. Read any agonizing post on this forum, and you can find a copy of the same feelings on my thread. Married 30 years, I was so blindsided it made me feel foolish. Now fast forward 19 months. I have been dating a wonderful woman, who is the exact opposite of my xw. My gf is laughing, joking all the time. Ask her how she is doing she will probably answer, "wonderfully!" She was married 25 years, divorced 3 years when I met her. Not a victim of infidelity, but of a marriage that just did not work. We are very open about everything, especially sex. (again exact opposite of myself and my xw, I swore I was going to c hange this time) She told me that in her marriage, she many times did not experience an O, was so bad she read many articles and wondered what was wrong with her. With me, she has had up to 6 in a session, rarely less than 2. We laugh and joke, she is always up for it and anything. HERE IS THE RANT! At a friend of mines home, a woman (who at one time was my xw's best friend, and now my xw will not even acknowledge her) says to my gf. "So how is the sex? "J" always complained that the sex with Hoosier wasnt any good." WTF! my xw rarely engaged during sex, would never let me do anything even close to outside the box (pun intended) in fact I can remember her complaining, "You want sex?!? Why you just got it day before yesterday!" Her new husband who is 65 (she is 53) told me seriously that for him "a good bowel movement is better than sex" (his lack of drive I think is what appealed to her). I know better than to let anything she says get to me. She has lied and lie d about us, our relationship to anyone who will listen. But it still pi$$es me off! |
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