Any other virgins who just aren´t trying?

Yes, this is another virgin thread, if you are not interested, look elsewhere. I am a 24 year old guy who is a supervirgin, i.e never kissed, never dated, never even held a girl´s hand or asked one out. I work a City job, am studying towards an accounting qualification and am also training to compete in a sport so other than the complete lack of romance, my life is going quite well and I keep busy. On the other hand I have zero social life and practically no friends. There are a few people I talk to online but they are mostly far away/in different countries which of course means that I don´t have anyone to go out with. Speaking of which, I have never really liked going out, loud places with tons of alcohol make me feel uncomfortable and I just feel like a fish out of water in them. Although I can talk just fine in a workplace setting, my social conversational skills are sub-par and when it comes to talking to girls, I just fall flat on my face. Basically I never really have had any proper contact with females in a social setting and as such, I find it difficult to know what I am missing out on (which according to films and TV shows should be something amazing). Combine that with a complete lack of a social life and one could say that I am not trying at all. I don´t look for opportunities to meet girls anymore (though I am not sure I ever really looked) and I just don´t really care. I have lost all motivation in this part of life since I see no light at the end of the tunnel for the very reason that I am nowhere near the tunnel. I am not asexual as I still really like girls and do my self-help program with the help of Xhamster but for any real world romance, I make practically zero effort (unless one counts making money and building muscles) with the opposite sex and I see no change happening in the immediate future. Even though on the one hand I would like to get a girlfriend (and a few years down the line get a wife and move into the suburbs with an SUV) then at the moment, I am doing absolutely nothing and just can´t be bothered to do anything. The way things are going now, I could very well become the real 40 year old virgin but without any kisses. Just wondering whether any other virgins out there feel the same way or is everyone else working their butts off to get a girl (or guy in case you are a female virgin)?

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