I wanted to bounce something off of you sexperts and see if you guys can give me some thoughts/alternatives to try from our current practice. Here goes.
One of our more common sex positions is the spooning sex position. I'm not sure when it became a popular one for us, but it may have came about due to either 1) a habit developed while she was pregnant with our youngest, 2) a position we got into prior to when I got my gout under control plus being out of shape or 3) a combination of 1 and 2. Regardless, it's been one of our go to sex positions. Lately spooning sex has been getting more difficult for me because my wife has been getting more active with it. I always thought of spooning sex as being a more relaxed and easy going position, i.e. not designed for more vigorous sex. Lately for the past 6 months - maybe a year - we have been morphing from spooning sex into what I would call sideways doggie style. To add to the challenge, she has been trying to help more - meaning she can get her butt ramming into me pretty hard and fast. That of course gets me to try to give her what she wants and speed up my intensity. It s ounds great until you realize (at least how it feels to me) that this tires you out very quickly. if we were in a normal doggie style position, missionary or her on top, no problem. I can sustain a frequency like a sewing machine needle if I have to. But when we're laying on our sides, I can't do it (at least can't go all out for long).
So I'm looking for suggestions on what I can add as either a substitute for or a compliment to the spooning sex position? If I go with missionary, doggie, her lying on her stomach or her on top as a substitute, then we lose one position since we're doing this already. Anyone have a good substitute that we can try for spooning sex that is different than the other positions that I already mentioned? Or, any suggestions for modifying spooning sex position so that I can make I can have improved endurance if I want to make it more vigorous?
What she likes about the spooning position as we do it now is the ease of getting stimulation of her G spot. So for substitutes, I'm asking for suggestions for positions for us to try to get better G spot stimulation. I know there are the online sex suggestion sites, but with this group I can see actual "testimonials" (no need for gory details!) and real experiential info vs. the flowery article suggestions from a guide. Thanks guys as usual for the help!
One of our more common sex positions is the spooning sex position. I'm not sure when it became a popular one for us, but it may have came about due to either 1) a habit developed while she was pregnant with our youngest, 2) a position we got into prior to when I got my gout under control plus being out of shape or 3) a combination of 1 and 2. Regardless, it's been one of our go to sex positions. Lately spooning sex has been getting more difficult for me because my wife has been getting more active with it. I always thought of spooning sex as being a more relaxed and easy going position, i.e. not designed for more vigorous sex. Lately for the past 6 months - maybe a year - we have been morphing from spooning sex into what I would call sideways doggie style. To add to the challenge, she has been trying to help more - meaning she can get her butt ramming into me pretty hard and fast. That of course gets me to try to give her what she wants and speed up my intensity. It s ounds great until you realize (at least how it feels to me) that this tires you out very quickly. if we were in a normal doggie style position, missionary or her on top, no problem. I can sustain a frequency like a sewing machine needle if I have to. But when we're laying on our sides, I can't do it (at least can't go all out for long).
So I'm looking for suggestions on what I can add as either a substitute for or a compliment to the spooning sex position? If I go with missionary, doggie, her lying on her stomach or her on top as a substitute, then we lose one position since we're doing this already. Anyone have a good substitute that we can try for spooning sex that is different than the other positions that I already mentioned? Or, any suggestions for modifying spooning sex position so that I can make I can have improved endurance if I want to make it more vigorous?
What she likes about the spooning position as we do it now is the ease of getting stimulation of her G spot. So for substitutes, I'm asking for suggestions for positions for us to try to get better G spot stimulation. I know there are the online sex suggestion sites, but with this group I can see actual "testimonials" (no need for gory details!) and real experiential info vs. the flowery article suggestions from a guide. Thanks guys as usual for the help!
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