Hello all,
I am new to this forum and am looking forward to being active and seeing what everything has to offer but there is a contradiction my wife and I are going through and we are considered newlyweds I would say.
For starters, when I first started dating my wife she was still in college which was perfectly fine but she has been graduated from college for about 6 months now and she isn't looking for a full time job. I try not to be too on top of her about this because it only frustrates her, but she doesn't understand with me paying the mortgage, groceries and other bills along with the bills I have already on top of my own leaves me with practically nothing at the end of the month. I don't think she understands the frustration of it and I've tried explaining it to her 3 times and nothing has changed. What is a fix for this or even any given advice that could be given? While writing this, I just thought that I could write down how much I make a month and all the bills I pay a month so she can see what I'm left over with at the end of the month. I am most definitely open to all other advice as well!
Another big thing is her dog. Her dog is 2 years old and was trained as a inside dog or whatnot because when of she was at her parents. They spoiled that dog rotten by for example giving it human food ALL the time, not scolding it for peeing or pooping anywhere in the house and the dog barks non stop at people it doesn't know. I literally mean NON stop as in she doesn't quit till there out of the house. She has become an issue because she pee's and poops in the utility room which is concrete so it is different compared to carpet but she still doesn't use her potty pad. She pee's on the floor, which stains the floor you can see even after cleaned up. As of late, the dog has been peeing in the bedroom and it's making the bedroom smell of urine and I've gotten to the point where I can't sleep in the room because it's disgusting to me. She wouldn't let me discipline the dog because she's afraid I'd be too hard on her but I know right from wrong so this kind of tells me the trust she has in me. I would most definitely take any and all advice for help with this. I'm sure the most common response is that the dog needs to be disciplined, not as in spanking but the only thing I'd do is stick her nose in it and say "No".
Please help!!
Jeremy
I am new to this forum and am looking forward to being active and seeing what everything has to offer but there is a contradiction my wife and I are going through and we are considered newlyweds I would say.
For starters, when I first started dating my wife she was still in college which was perfectly fine but she has been graduated from college for about 6 months now and she isn't looking for a full time job. I try not to be too on top of her about this because it only frustrates her, but she doesn't understand with me paying the mortgage, groceries and other bills along with the bills I have already on top of my own leaves me with practically nothing at the end of the month. I don't think she understands the frustration of it and I've tried explaining it to her 3 times and nothing has changed. What is a fix for this or even any given advice that could be given? While writing this, I just thought that I could write down how much I make a month and all the bills I pay a month so she can see what I'm left over with at the end of the month. I am most definitely open to all other advice as well!
Another big thing is her dog. Her dog is 2 years old and was trained as a inside dog or whatnot because when of she was at her parents. They spoiled that dog rotten by for example giving it human food ALL the time, not scolding it for peeing or pooping anywhere in the house and the dog barks non stop at people it doesn't know. I literally mean NON stop as in she doesn't quit till there out of the house. She has become an issue because she pee's and poops in the utility room which is concrete so it is different compared to carpet but she still doesn't use her potty pad. She pee's on the floor, which stains the floor you can see even after cleaned up. As of late, the dog has been peeing in the bedroom and it's making the bedroom smell of urine and I've gotten to the point where I can't sleep in the room because it's disgusting to me. She wouldn't let me discipline the dog because she's afraid I'd be too hard on her but I know right from wrong so this kind of tells me the trust she has in me. I would most definitely take any and all advice for help with this. I'm sure the most common response is that the dog needs to be disciplined, not as in spanking but the only thing I'd do is stick her nose in it and say "No".
Please help!!
Jeremy
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