I met a guy online, and we matched but live so quite far from one another, we added each other on whatsapp and we texted a lot at first almost every day, and for a good 3 hours straight with funny banter and he said he liked talking to me and my personality, fancied me, called me gorgeous, but we had really really deep conversatons about life - and he got me to open up even though i never open up and he then called me up and we spoke for 2 hours, i was really nervous so I was blabbing and thought he wouldnt speak to me again, but he texted me again..
.then he went away for a week and i didnt speak to him for ages and then he messaged me whilst in the bath?! when he came back and yeah he asked why we havent spoken in so long and he said hed been really busy, and i said i had too that i had a big deadline coming up - even though i was waiting for a message all week as well...then he was all supportive like you should concentrate on your studies and ill talk to you at the end of the month
now i havent spoke to him in 5 days or so, he keeps saying he wants to meet me - he says why would i still be talking to you if you live that far away? as i said i think i would be a major disappointment as all of his girl friends are much prettier and he also went into his previous relationships on the phone saying the longest he had was 8 months, which worries me :/ and that i should come stay with him for a weekend after my deadlines...
im also the one who has to iniate convos atm which is annoying but i do this at night - which is when he goes to sleep as hes more of a morning person and he keeps saying he is going to call me... he really hates texting - he likes to talk on the phone but he hasnt called me yet...hes also from a totally different economic and social background to me - total opposite ends of the spectrum...he also has a lot of girl friends and i feel that hes a bit of a flirt and enjoys talking to other girls a lot - he added me on facebook a couple of weeks after talking on whatsapp and he wrote on my wall about calling me! but yeah he is really close with a girl who he has been friends since really young and hes written on her wall so many times calling her sis? and then other times gorgeous and i think i like you and her saying i love you! back but i dont know whether this is drunk/friendly stuff, they just seem really close and shes so pretty and his type i dont get it....
i just dont know what to do in this situation
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