We have been together for 3 years, she had never had a relationship before, and I had only had these little school 'girlfriends' so I don't think they count.
When we started dating we took things slow, everything was new to her so I didn't want to pressure her, sex wasn't that big a deal we got along and were happy.
After being together for a year she tells me she is becoming Christian, which in short means No sex before marriage, no living together before marriage, not even sleeping in the same room before marriage.
At the start we were happy. I decided to support her because she made me happy. About a year ago she asked me if I wanted to be Christian, it would mean a lot to her if I was. But to be honest I am much more of an atheist if I had to choose, I told her and she was disappointed but accepted it.
There a a couple of questions I want to know:
I can't help but feel all these rules that aren't even my religion are going to cause so many problems, I feel like I need something more than a peck on the cheek to feel intimate. Is that bad?
Do you think she is only staying with me because she hasn't had a boyfriend before, so she is holding on no matter what?
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