So my mum and dad fight regularly over the smallest things and when this happens, my mum comes and tells me why my dad's wrong and how we used to be happier when me and my siblings were younger and living under the same roof, when these fights normally happen right in front of me. I can understand the situation without her telling me. Even though sometimes she's right, it feels uncomfortable listening to her talk about my dad and it's not like I can do anything about it. These little fights literally ruin our family holidays and I just hate it. Other times, I feel like my mum is just ungrateful. Sometimes I simply leave in the middle of her talking if I reach that point where I feel like crying or screaming that I'm not her therapist but obviously that's still disrespectful. It feels the worst when some of what she's saying is true. How do I deal with this without being disrespectful to either of my parents? And how do I prevent myself from getting angry at my mum so that I can help her? And professional help is out of the question because they're just not the 'professional help' type of people. They're the 'go with the flow and it'll all be solved with time' type, and I'm the 'something should be done at least' type.
Thank you if you read the whole paragraph. :$
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