My story is just like a bunch of other people on here,
so I will make it short:
great sex, great blow jobs.
got married,
blow jobs stopped,
had a kid,
the sex stopped.
My wife told me she never wanted to have sex again ever. About that time I had some medical problems and went to the doctor.
I noticed when I asked for sex she got mad, but when the doctor said I needed to get some sleep for my condition to improve. I told my wife that the doctor recommended I have sex to help me sleep. She looked at the doctor as an authority figure and it basically worked. I am super simplifying it, the process took months. But now I get sex every night to help me sleep like the doctor ordered (more or less), and it has become a routine so it's not something we fight about anymore.
This worked for many years, then she started trying to make the sex so bad that I would not want it, and she started doing other things to cause problems with our marriage. It got to the point where I didn't want our kid to be exposed to the yelling and other things she was doing.
So one day I bought a ticket to Thailand for two weeks, I told her I was going on vacation and I left. She was really pissed off when I left.
Thailand was the perfect choice because there is nothing like a bunch of super hot girls in their 20's who want to marry you to really boost the confidence of an old guy. I really had gone there to pick out a replacement, which would have been very easy to do.
But to my shock two weeks later when I returned my wife was a different person, she was nice to me and almost a little respectful and really worried I had met someone while I was there.
I must disclose that I do an insane amount of stuff for my wife, I always have and she has always taken it for granted. So when I left her lifestyle took a really really big hit, and she started really getting worried I was going to leave for good.
So now she really does not like having sex but she will do a little bit over the minimum without complaining about it.
But I know that will only last for a while, so at some point we are going to start working our way back to where we were.
To solve (or at least postpone) this problem, I am thinking about one of two different approaches:
1. use the little bit of power I currently have to ask her to go see a professional hypnotist and see what they can do to improve her sex drive.
2. my wife is a really deep sleeper, so I am thinking about trying to give her suggestions in her sleep to increase her sex drive.
I have been searching the internet (and this site) and there is not much information on hypnotizing someone to increase their sex drive.
But if anyone has any information on it, I would love to hear.
If not I will report back on my results. This is all new territory for me, so I would be open to any advice or suggestions.
so I will make it short:
great sex, great blow jobs.
got married,
blow jobs stopped,
had a kid,
the sex stopped.
My wife told me she never wanted to have sex again ever. About that time I had some medical problems and went to the doctor.
I noticed when I asked for sex she got mad, but when the doctor said I needed to get some sleep for my condition to improve. I told my wife that the doctor recommended I have sex to help me sleep. She looked at the doctor as an authority figure and it basically worked. I am super simplifying it, the process took months. But now I get sex every night to help me sleep like the doctor ordered (more or less), and it has become a routine so it's not something we fight about anymore.
This worked for many years, then she started trying to make the sex so bad that I would not want it, and she started doing other things to cause problems with our marriage. It got to the point where I didn't want our kid to be exposed to the yelling and other things she was doing.
So one day I bought a ticket to Thailand for two weeks, I told her I was going on vacation and I left. She was really pissed off when I left.
Thailand was the perfect choice because there is nothing like a bunch of super hot girls in their 20's who want to marry you to really boost the confidence of an old guy. I really had gone there to pick out a replacement, which would have been very easy to do.
But to my shock two weeks later when I returned my wife was a different person, she was nice to me and almost a little respectful and really worried I had met someone while I was there.
I must disclose that I do an insane amount of stuff for my wife, I always have and she has always taken it for granted. So when I left her lifestyle took a really really big hit, and she started really getting worried I was going to leave for good.
So now she really does not like having sex but she will do a little bit over the minimum without complaining about it.
But I know that will only last for a while, so at some point we are going to start working our way back to where we were.
To solve (or at least postpone) this problem, I am thinking about one of two different approaches:
1. use the little bit of power I currently have to ask her to go see a professional hypnotist and see what they can do to improve her sex drive.
2. my wife is a really deep sleeper, so I am thinking about trying to give her suggestions in her sleep to increase her sex drive.
I have been searching the internet (and this site) and there is not much information on hypnotizing someone to increase their sex drive.
But if anyone has any information on it, I would love to hear.
If not I will report back on my results. This is all new territory for me, so I would be open to any advice or suggestions.
Put the internet to work for you.
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