My wife and I have been married for 6 years and we have a 3 year old daughter. Before we got married I always wanted two children and my wife always wanted three. Once we had our daughter, she was a handful, we both mutually decided we only wanted an only child. Now fast forward 3 years later she wants another child and I am very happy with my family the way it is.
Now we just had a condom slip off last night...and I suggested the use of the morning after pill...which promptly got a angry response from her. My wife was raped and had to take the morning after pill years before she met me. So now she's associating my suggestion of the morning after pill with rape. She doesn't want to take it and I think it's being used so she can hopefully be pregnant again, all the while knowing that I don't want another child and I did all in my power to provide protection (next to getting a vasectomy) by using a condom. But now she won't reciprocate the same protection by taking a morning after pill.
I can't believe this is happening. Any advice?
Now we just had a condom slip off last night...and I suggested the use of the morning after pill...which promptly got a angry response from her. My wife was raped and had to take the morning after pill years before she met me. So now she's associating my suggestion of the morning after pill with rape. She doesn't want to take it and I think it's being used so she can hopefully be pregnant again, all the while knowing that I don't want another child and I did all in my power to provide protection (next to getting a vasectomy) by using a condom. But now she won't reciprocate the same protection by taking a morning after pill.
I can't believe this is happening. Any advice?
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