The last guy I dated was the sweetest guy ever in the beginning and I quickly began to see his true colours. He was quite aggressive and he had a tendency to criticise me in terms of my appearance. He knocked my confidence too many times.
The guy before him was a nice guy at first, he asked of too much yet didn't want to commit. he would block me out all the time and fob me off saying it's 'depression week'. Turned out he had a girlfriend and depression week was probably 'I'm having sex with my girlfriend week', so of course I was pretty pissed.
The guy I'm seeing now is so straight forward. He hasn't done the whole 'I'm gonna be extra sweet thing' I've noticed guys have done in the past to try and woo me. Infact he is yet to say anything remotely sweet to me. We talk like we've known each other for years. He hasn't played any games, he's consistent, if says he's gonna do something he does. And the list goes on.
My problem is I feel like I'm expecting a downfall. All the other guys have shown their flaws and things quickly went downhill. I acknowledge that everyone has faults, this new guy isn't perfect but I'm worried he'll change on me.
Anyone else been in this situation? How do I stop myself from thinking like this?
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