Okay before I start, I want to let you all know I'm not a pretentious ******* or an arrogant ***** so all you time wasters don't troll.
I broke up with my ex 6 months ago (we were in LDR), and before that I had no experience with girls. I was really hurt by how it ended (not my fault, my ex started liking someone else etc, which was unfortunate since we both agreed that our relationship was pretty serious.)
Now I'm at university I only want 'casual' stuff so I don't get embroiled into a similar situation like my previous relationship, because I've come to know it's too young to have a gf and it's in my best interest to just enjoy the single life. So the natural thing for me is to flirt with any girl I talk to and it works. I mean I get the girl's number and we make plans etc, so I've been branded the 'womaniser' which is pretty annoying.
Problem is I can't control that. Any girl that I talk to I feel like I have to flirt with her and however much I try I can't not talk to girls. Thing is there's this one girl in my course that's turned me from a 'casual' guy to actually wanting to be in a relationship with her. Call it a crush or whatever, I actually like this girl more than just sex.
BUT I know I can't get with her, or anyone for that matter, because I'm also an academic and I pride on my academia.
Is it just a dent in confidence/bruised ego from my previous relationship that I'm suffering from that I feel I have to interact with girls?
Put the internet to work for you.
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