My husband and I have been married for 17 years. We've been a couple since the ages of 14 and 15. For most of our marriage, we have been happy, agreeable, and pretty honest with one another. Early last year, I started having a gut feeling that something wasn't right. I noticed that my husband would often forget his computer at work and go alone to pick it up, I noticed he was spending more time on our home computer, and he even put a password on his cell phone. Each time I questioned him about his behavior, he would reply with a legitimate reason. I didn't want to accuse him of anything because I didn't have proof he was doing anything wrong, I just had this "feeling" that something had changed. After a few weeks of his strange behavior, I confronted him and asked if he was seeing someone else. He admitted that he was. He told me that he met someone through work and they spoke online, but they never met in person. I found out that he and this other woman had been carrying on an online affair for about three months and they continued the affair for another three-five months after I found out. Although, my husband never physically touched this woman, the conversations they shared and the idea that he "cheated" on me have kept me from trusting him again and forgiving him. I know there are two sided to every story and this is the brief version of my story, but I can't help but feel like my husband hasn't changed and that his character isn't worth being in this marriage any longer. Is there anyone out there, man or woman that is willing to share their advice and ears, please?
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