Before I married my husband 2 years ago, I lied to him. I know it was the biggest mistake I could have made. It took me 3 months to come clean with him. It was over something that happened before we even met. Anyway he told me we could start over and work on our marriage. I feel he lied to me about it, because we when we argue all he wants to do is drag up my past and make me feel like an outcast. He makes me feel like a prostitute. And this been going on this way now for the two years that we have been married. I understand he doesnt trust me, and I am trying to build the trust back. Then out of the blue he starts making all these sexual comments about a female friend of his and telling me that if we were not married he would try to get her to date him. Now about a week ago he decides that he wants to work on our friendship and not our marriage. We still live like we are married, but I have boundaries that I am not to cross. But he can do what ever he wa nts. His reasoning for this is he says he is going through a mid life crisis. And he talks to this female friend about our whole situation, even about our sleeping arrangements. He gets mad when he asks how I am doing with it all and I tell him that I am dealing with it,because I said I would, but that is about it. He gets upset when I cry and seems like he is always trying to argue with me. I am so confused and Miserable. I know I did wrong when I lied to him, but what I dont understand is everything else. Is marriage suppose to be this way?
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