Are you all ready for the inevitable "I'm a virgin, help my naive arse" post???
I'm twenty year old lass, in university and a virgin. I'm all right with lads, I go on dates and I've had a couple of non serious boyfriends. I'm not saving myself for marriage or anything, I just don't want to know someone before I sleep with them. The boyfriends were always very blah when it came to getting to know each other. They were both nice but our conversations with each other were pretty bland. They were short term relationships so it's not like I was leading them on and not putting out or anything. First boyfriend was a month but we only saw each other twice a week and the second boyfriend was two weeks and tbh we never did anything but go to clubs because he "wanted to be seen" (exact words).
My mate said if I don't get laid, lads will start thinking there's something wrong with me. True or not? I don't want every guy I go on a date with to be thinking, "call a doctor, this one needs help." She thinks I'll get a reputation for being frigid. She said if I don't want to bang anyone to get rid of the label, I should either lie about my virginity or just never mention it until it's gone. I'm usually pretty upfront about it. I don't tell people randomly but I'll be honest if somebody asks. I'm guessing that's a bit of a daft thing to admit to?
SO what do you all think of virgins? Would you think future crazy cat lady or what?
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