My wife and I have been married 20 years. We both love each other very, very much. We are best friends. We've had issues with sex but nothing in the past year or so but that was not getting in the way of having a wonderful life.
Recently I've felt something was wrong. When I brought that up to my wife she came clean and said "She loved me, but wasn't 'in love' with me". We talked and cried and in the end we agreed we both wanted to stay married and we would work on the marriage.
I want to believe her but it is difficult getting past the 'not in love with you' statement. On top of that I just found she has recently had some 'boudoir' photos taken of herself and never told me. She doesn't know that I know at this point.
I really want our marriage to work and feel that it can but I'm a little uneasy and not sure how to deal with my feelings and at the same time, help promote a healthy relationship with the goal of staying married.
Thoughts? TYIA
Recently I've felt something was wrong. When I brought that up to my wife she came clean and said "She loved me, but wasn't 'in love' with me". We talked and cried and in the end we agreed we both wanted to stay married and we would work on the marriage.
I want to believe her but it is difficult getting past the 'not in love with you' statement. On top of that I just found she has recently had some 'boudoir' photos taken of herself and never told me. She doesn't know that I know at this point.
I really want our marriage to work and feel that it can but I'm a little uneasy and not sure how to deal with my feelings and at the same time, help promote a healthy relationship with the goal of staying married.
Thoughts? TYIA
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