Good Day Everyone-
I decided to join the forum in search for some answers in my marriage.
Two weeks ago my husband of four years, asked me for a divorce out of no where. It hit me like a bomb shell. He stated that he has been unhappy throughout all our marriage and that I am the least affectionate person hes ever been with. That we have nothing in common. Of Course I cried to him and pleaded to give us a few more months, to work out any issues we may have. So for the next week I was the most loving and affectionate wife, except he kept shutting me down saying its too late.
This went on for about a week.
Fastforward to this past sunday, I went through is phone out of mere suspicion and come to find out hes having an afair with a co-worker. Calling her baby and telling he wants her. Of course we fought and I called her aswell. Last night we talked and he still wanted a divorce saying he didnt love me the way I wanted him too and that I had plenty of opportunities to change and show my love for him.
One problem: I am not a cold person, I love him with all my heart and not sure when I wasnt as affectionate. We also have a 2 year old together that is my full responsibility. So I have nights and weeks where im exhausted from being a mom at home and a corporate partner in the business world but i dont think i neglected him.
Please help me understand what is going on...:scratchhead:
I decided to join the forum in search for some answers in my marriage.
Two weeks ago my husband of four years, asked me for a divorce out of no where. It hit me like a bomb shell. He stated that he has been unhappy throughout all our marriage and that I am the least affectionate person hes ever been with. That we have nothing in common. Of Course I cried to him and pleaded to give us a few more months, to work out any issues we may have. So for the next week I was the most loving and affectionate wife, except he kept shutting me down saying its too late.
This went on for about a week.
Fastforward to this past sunday, I went through is phone out of mere suspicion and come to find out hes having an afair with a co-worker. Calling her baby and telling he wants her. Of course we fought and I called her aswell. Last night we talked and he still wanted a divorce saying he didnt love me the way I wanted him too and that I had plenty of opportunities to change and show my love for him.
One problem: I am not a cold person, I love him with all my heart and not sure when I wasnt as affectionate. We also have a 2 year old together that is my full responsibility. So I have nights and weeks where im exhausted from being a mom at home and a corporate partner in the business world but i dont think i neglected him.
Please help me understand what is going on...:scratchhead:
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