In other posts I have described that I uncovered my wife's EA and also had a PI uncover she was staying at another mans house while she left my son and me alone for two months.
The truth is for some strange reason the affair wasn't why I filed for divorce. I had previously drawn a line in the sand. If she threatened to take my son away, I would file. We had our temp hearing and are splitting our son mon-Thursday-Monday. I Know she is still in her fog. However I am willing to do whatever it takes to be happy with her again and to spend every day with my son.
My question is: since I was the one who filed for divorce, is there a way to hint that I am willing to forgive her and that reconciliation is an option in the future without hurting myself legally. I am currently doing the 180, and tbh I have found myself getting more attention when I go out. Sadly I find no pleasure in that though. I want to be a family man. I want my family back.
She is convinced that our s19mo will be just fine with us separated. It's heartbreaking to me that I don't get to see her raise our son or that he never will get to experience his parents at their best - which honestly wasn't that long ago. When I get him, I can tell he is different and by the time he goes back to his moms he is "back to normal". Surely this can't be good for him.
Does anyone have experience in this scenario?
The truth is for some strange reason the affair wasn't why I filed for divorce. I had previously drawn a line in the sand. If she threatened to take my son away, I would file. We had our temp hearing and are splitting our son mon-Thursday-Monday. I Know she is still in her fog. However I am willing to do whatever it takes to be happy with her again and to spend every day with my son.
My question is: since I was the one who filed for divorce, is there a way to hint that I am willing to forgive her and that reconciliation is an option in the future without hurting myself legally. I am currently doing the 180, and tbh I have found myself getting more attention when I go out. Sadly I find no pleasure in that though. I want to be a family man. I want my family back.
She is convinced that our s19mo will be just fine with us separated. It's heartbreaking to me that I don't get to see her raise our son or that he never will get to experience his parents at their best - which honestly wasn't that long ago. When I get him, I can tell he is different and by the time he goes back to his moms he is "back to normal". Surely this can't be good for him.
Does anyone have experience in this scenario?
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