I joined this forum a few years back for advice during my divorce. To make a long story short, my wife left me and I didn't take it very well. A few years have passed and I have gotten back out into the dating seen. I am 36 years old. I am 6'1" and weigh about 170 pounds. Exercise daily. Jog, lift weights. No health issues.
I started dating and noticed that I was having issues. I wasn't a stud with my ex by no means but could get a erection and perform. I would get into really great situations. I started to really like the dating seen and noticed that when I connected with girls i liked I wasn't getting a natural erection from foreplay. I needed manual stimulation to get a erection(which is embarrassing) and some times the manual stimulation would get me too worked up to last very long. The issues stunted my dating. Girls i liked would want to have sex and I was backing out of the situation past making out. I had a few times that I backed out of fantasy situations. I am 36 and met a few girls in the 23-25 year old range. Stuff happens when you go out and I was backing out of situations that would make me sick.
I met a girl I like a lot. I went into the situation with my issue. She was patient. She was concerned but didn't stop dating me. I went into freak out mode and talked to people i worked with that were single and my age. Almost everybody told me to go see a doctor. Doctors will give you what you want. My buds are right. The docs will give you meds. The meds work sort of. Nothing is perfect. Using meds opened a pandoras box though. The girl I was dating new that I was enhanced. I am always honest. Buds at work always say never reveal the source of your power. Once you tell the truth women can't handle it. I started dating this girl with a issue and the meds fixed it sort of. She wanted me to do some dry runs without meds and for the most part they were failures. The runs on meds are better but since i have been out of practice for a few years they were also not perfect. We always use condoms and a few time the meds would give me a solid erection but for some reason i couldn't climax. I go from not getting a erection and lasting a few minutes to being rock hard but can't climaxing lol.
I really hope that the doc can figure this out. It would be great if my issue could just be fixed. Its sad that the docs are so quick to give ED meds but don't evaluate what the source of the issues are. The girl i am dating is patient but concerned. I honestly don't blame her.
Anybody have issues like this and worked past it? Doctor work out the right treatment to fix it? I don't want to lie to her. If the doc says im healthy and my issue is mental, I don't want to be a failure till i work through it. I would rather perform better with meds than struggle without them. This sucks so bad. I honestly understand why she would rather be with a guy with no meds. Being a guy is great other than this lol. We are expected to perform. So much of it is mental. If you worry it can kill it. If you are on meds it can ease the stress but not your girls stress lol.
I started dating and noticed that I was having issues. I wasn't a stud with my ex by no means but could get a erection and perform. I would get into really great situations. I started to really like the dating seen and noticed that when I connected with girls i liked I wasn't getting a natural erection from foreplay. I needed manual stimulation to get a erection(which is embarrassing) and some times the manual stimulation would get me too worked up to last very long. The issues stunted my dating. Girls i liked would want to have sex and I was backing out of the situation past making out. I had a few times that I backed out of fantasy situations. I am 36 and met a few girls in the 23-25 year old range. Stuff happens when you go out and I was backing out of situations that would make me sick.
I met a girl I like a lot. I went into the situation with my issue. She was patient. She was concerned but didn't stop dating me. I went into freak out mode and talked to people i worked with that were single and my age. Almost everybody told me to go see a doctor. Doctors will give you what you want. My buds are right. The docs will give you meds. The meds work sort of. Nothing is perfect. Using meds opened a pandoras box though. The girl I was dating new that I was enhanced. I am always honest. Buds at work always say never reveal the source of your power. Once you tell the truth women can't handle it. I started dating this girl with a issue and the meds fixed it sort of. She wanted me to do some dry runs without meds and for the most part they were failures. The runs on meds are better but since i have been out of practice for a few years they were also not perfect. We always use condoms and a few time the meds would give me a solid erection but for some reason i couldn't climax. I go from not getting a erection and lasting a few minutes to being rock hard but can't climaxing lol.
I really hope that the doc can figure this out. It would be great if my issue could just be fixed. Its sad that the docs are so quick to give ED meds but don't evaluate what the source of the issues are. The girl i am dating is patient but concerned. I honestly don't blame her.
Anybody have issues like this and worked past it? Doctor work out the right treatment to fix it? I don't want to lie to her. If the doc says im healthy and my issue is mental, I don't want to be a failure till i work through it. I would rather perform better with meds than struggle without them. This sucks so bad. I honestly understand why she would rather be with a guy with no meds. Being a guy is great other than this lol. We are expected to perform. So much of it is mental. If you worry it can kill it. If you are on meds it can ease the stress but not your girls stress lol.
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