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Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last year in February (he dumped me). We were together for nearly three years, his family don't approve of us being together. I stopped all contact with him, blocked him of every social network. I also blocked and deleted his number.
He told his friend in July about us breaking up and everything, I ignored it because he had a new girlfriend and I didn't want to get caught up in his drama and I wanted to move on.
Fast forward, 16 months (July 2016) he spoke to me which I responded to purely because of how long it's been since we broke up. I'm not expecting to be the best of friends, there's nothing wrong with being civil. He was just asking be if I hate him and he spoke to me to see how I was and if I hated him. After that conversation, I didn't speak to him again.
Now in September, he spoke to me again and was remorseful of what he did to me. He said he wanted to meet up and asked me if I love him. I agreed to meet up (stupid I know) and we didn't actually meet up, thankfully. He was being really flirty saying if I'm going to kiss him and he was asking for kisses etc. I told him I was willing to forgive him and take him back on two conditions which he agreed to. He also asked how many guys I've been in a relationship with since we broke up.
Now I'm back to square one, where he's ended things with me again. So I blocked him off everything and told him to block and delete my number few times.He STILL hasn't done this. He claims he's moved on but I don't think he has after this. He said realistically we can't be together.
Never mind, I'm getting a new number next week so I'm not too bothered by that.
Do you think I should tell his sister because then she will tell their Mum? They'll both screw and hopefully get him to stop contacting me again.
What do you think I should do? :(
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From minor things to much broader things like personality etc
What do you find attractive/cute in a girl? Things that girls do that make you attracted to them?
What 'type' of girls do you prefer? For example the loud outgoing ones or more shy, quiet ones?
How much do you value looks from a scale of 1 to 10, (1 being not at all).
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We've been together about 9 months and for the past couple of months he's not wanted any kind of intimacy - not even kissing, and I've had to ask him to cuddle me. From around mid-July he was revising for re-takes that he was sitting in August. That was when he first lost his sex drive. I could understand that he was stressed so I tried my best to just give him his space and to support him with his studies where I could.
However, even after he had finished his exams, and received his results (he passed, and can go into his second year at uni), he still keeps rejecting sex. He used to be in the mood for it constantly and he said he's never felt like this before, so I keep feeling as though he doesn't find me attractive. He said that he still fancies me and wants to be with me but he only compliments me when I say that I'm upset about the current situation. What's more, he always gets really defensive and I'm upset that he hasn't made any effort at all to please me sexually in other ways, even if he doesn't want to sleep with me.
I also know that he's still watching porn on his own several times a week. I don't care if guys watch it at all, but it's just when he won't show me any intimacy that it's upsetting. I'm just fed up of feeling unwanted all the time, and I've mentioned this to him several times - he just gets defensive or sits there in complete silence when I'm crying and upset. I get that men don't want sex all the time, but I've still tried to please him in the past, even when I'm not in the mood, or at least made it clear that I still find him attractive. I'm also not a prude in bed or just lay there and not do anything - so I feel that I do make an effort.
I'm tired of feeling unwanted, especially when I know that there are other guys out there who wouldn't take me for granted and who don't hesitate to say that I'm beautiful, or whatever. I'm happy with him in other respects but the most awkward aspect of leaving him is that I'm living with him at uni (I didn't plan it, but we got together a while after we signed the house). I feel upset a lot of the time about it and it hurts that he doesn't seem to care - even just a small thing like a compliment would make the situation a lot better (which again I have said, but he just won't see) - so I'm not sure whether I'm best of just packing him in and saving myself the arguments about it
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I'm not going to go into details about how I found about but basically my dad has been having a full on affair with a woman for about 7 years now and he visits her house everyday, goes out to places with her and from reading through his face book messages (keylogged his computer ) for the past year and a half I've discovered he's planning on buying a house with her and has already brought her a car, despite saying that he cannot afford things for our family. My mum hears from numerous people that he had been seen with a woman a few years ago and she had her suspisions but he manages to get away with it. I am the only one who knows about this 7 year long affair and the full extent of it and what he's done and it has been tough keeping it in for all this time, especially as I am only 14. The hardest part is when my dad sneaks off everyday to see her when he comes home he makes a very believeble excuse as to where he was hence why my mum is unaware, but I know exactl y where he was and what he was doing and it's killing me. Not to mention I've found numerous things such as MDMA and Viagra in his 'work' bag which I've never told anyone about. Me and my dad get along so well and it would kill me to not see him or anything which is why I've never told my mum or siblings about the affair etc. and because my sister is only 10 and wouldn't cope very well. I still love my dad but equally my mum so I have never liked or found it easy to keep this quiet. I just find it amazing how this has been going on for so long and yet I noticed it when I was 7!! but still no one else has, I've always had my suspiciouns. The bottom line is I am very confused and feel so bad for keeping this in all this time but at the same time I don't want to destroy our family but surely my mum should know. Help!!!
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I'm a guy, fresher, just met a girl who seems interested in me. We agreed to do something together tomorrow, not sure what yet. Any advice?
Also, how do I start a convo? Like what should I ask and stuff. I basically know nothing about her except her name and she's a fresher too. I'm nervous.
If I end up bringing her home, is it bad if we have sex on the second day we meet? I'm not horny or anything but need to be prepared if the mood is right if you know what I mean.
Thanks for reading
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Hi there!
I'm a 2nd year student and my boyfriend is about to move into halls today to start his first year. He's 22, we've been together on the closer side of two years. It's not his first time living alone either, he's lived near his uni for the past 2 years with his sister but halls are cheaper and on campus. However, he is seeing moving in as just moving into a new flat where all your neighbours are students and you share a kitchen.
He is insistent that I stay up for the weekend as his freshers events begin on the Monday. However, I am unsure whether or not to stay because I don't want him to miss out on making friends (although I know he will when he actually goes to events). He says some people are moving in Sunday too.
I remember during my freshers, someone bought their girlfriend up for the first night and though I saw no issue (and even ended up spending my evening with them as they didn't have tickets to the event that night), everyone else thought it was weird. But, even during freshers I missed a few events to see him but still managed to be extremely close to a lot of my flat mates.
I'm on the fence as although I briefly met my flatmates that first night, most of them didn't actually go out until they were comfortable with their surroundings but through getting to know them over the year, I can now I can call them my best friends.
What do you guys thinks? I've explained both sides of the argument to him but he's insistent I stay the first night as he wants to see me and won't for a little while if he doesn't tomorrow. I am very unsure as to whether I should stay that night or not. I know it's about making the first impression that first night, but he says he is going to be too tired to go out (it's a long journey) and would rather save it for the actual freshers week on Monday and watch a movie in bed the first night in halls.
Guys, can someone just make up my mind for me because I've balanced the argument in my head and I don't know what to do!
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Hey everyone, I've just moved out for uni. I have no friends at this uni so I'm basically a lone wolf aha. I'm looking for a girlfriend, but don't know what I should do to get myself out there? Any advice guys and girls? I'm not a loud person, I'm more mature and prefer a girl who has similar qualities.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating since late January of this year; on Wednesday we were talking getting along as per usual we never really fight and when we do it blows over very quickly. He asked me if I wanted to meet him at a costume store so we can start planning what we were going to be for Halloween; he told me to meet him there at 6 and that was the last text that he sent me. I waited for him and he never showed up he hasn't said anything to me since which is really unlike him. He's in the Texas State Guard and sometimes they tell him he needs to drop whatever he's doing to head over to the base but he's been on facebook and instagram so I know he's ignoring me. I don't want to be all clingy so I haven't been bombarding him with messages I only sent a few saying I hope he's alright yada yada yada stuff like that. I never even got pissed that he blew me off I can't recall any possible argument and to my knowledge I've done nothing wrong. Do you think he's ignoring me because he wants to break up? I just keep thinking of the worst possible scenarios :/
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I am seriously depressed at the moment and have been for a very long while. There is a complete lack of support in my life; my parents are never there for me. I have become very detached and I have lost my friends and I cannot take part in conversations, because I am anxious and mentally upset and depressed. I am self conscious all the time. It just seems everything has gone wrong. I used to be popular but it's all gone. People don't want to know me at all.
Any advice?
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I've been starting to talk to this girl a lot lately we've started a relationship but her dad/mum doesn't know as her dad is very protective over his daughter with is fair enough. I need help for advice to please her dad as he wants to meet me to see what I'm like ect, any help and advice. As I've never done this before. Thanks
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So I'm going to this very posh club on Saturday night and I'm quite confident that I will be able to bag in a girl or two :E I'm staying at my sister's apartment but is it appropriate to bring girl back to her place?
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