Am I right to be upset?

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Am I right to be upset?

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• 23 hours ago 23h ago

I am seeing this guy and have been for about 4 months.

The thing I am getting upset about is the way he talks about my body. I have a very small frame, I barely have any boobs and I don't have a big bum (that seems to be all the rage now).

But he will have ''banter'' with me and he will call me things like flat back and pancake.........:( I told him my insecurities about my boobs and bum and he still brings them up to take the piss out of me sometimes.

I spoke to him about it and said it actually hurts me when he says that and I don't get personal with him or bring up things that would make him feel self-conscious. His reply was ''Well your bum and boobs are small, I'm not going to lie to you but it's not all about the bum or the boobs, you have a pretty face and nice hair''.

The other day he was doing some exercises and told me I should start squatting as it will give me a bigger booty. He doesn't understand that I squatted for bloody months because I thought it might make it bigger and it didn't AT ALL.

I've noticed that the girls he's been out with before are much more womanly than me in body, like they're quite curvaceous and it doesn't make me feel good about my body.

What can I do TSR? I've tried to explain it to him but he just takes it as a joke and I'm done with feeling upset about my bum and boobs like I can't help that I wasn't blessed in that area.

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Why do some people turn into arses in a relationship?

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Why do some people turn into arses in a relationship?

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• 22 hours ago 22h ago

Was best friends with a girl for many years, we did everything - shared everything together.
We both kept in touch at University - she finishes Uni, gets a boyfriend.
She pretty much disappeared for months, but we all knew it was the honey moon and left her too it.
I return from University for the holidays, set up a group chat with us all too meet over the time.
She doesn't respond on it. So we all meet up without her.
I message her 5 times, (borderline stalkerish) she doesn't reply.

I go back to University and continue to be ignored, finally call it a day and give up on the friendship.
Found out recently she'd been ignoring me (she hasn't spoke to me yet)
that it's because I didn't meet her over christmas or get her involved on anything we did. :@

I don't understand, if someone doesn 't reply and just spends everyday with their boyfriend - how can the person who tried to make the effort be at fault for not disturbing her/borderline stalkering her.



I am very confused at the situation and want to know if anyone has been in a similar position, has your friend turned unrecgonisable since being in a relationship or last rationality??

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Will I still look good to him?

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Will I still look good to him?

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• 22 hours ago 22h ago

My ex described me in a text to a friend as an "ABSOLUTE HOTTIE". However, when he went away to uni, he ended it after only a few weeks and got together with someone I consider to be more attractive.

Now he's asked to meet up and I'm convinced he's going to find me unattractive. Will this be the case?

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I become too sexually aroused when talking to girls

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I become too sexually aroused when talking to girls

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It's making it really difficult for me to talk to girls. I'm actually forced to disengage from conversations prematurely before my semi transforms itself into a fully fledged boner. The conversations aren't even sexual in nature.

I should mention that I've been doing NoFap for 60 days now and going strong, so that might have something to do with it.

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Long distance relationship dilema..

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Long distance relationship dilema..

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• 23 hours ago 23h ago

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about a year now and it has been going really well, and we do currently have a long distance relationship as we live over 50 miles apart. However we make it work and luckily train fares aren't too expensive or lengthy so I can see him most weekends. But I am already worrying about what to do about university..
I am going to be studying at Nottingham (hopefully) and he
will be in Plymouth. Originally I never wanted a long distance relationship at uni, but I decided to give it a go. However I have now found out that a return train fare costs at least £90 usually (with a railcard) and national express bus is cheaper but would take over 9 hours! SO I just don't see how it'll work..

Does anyone have any experience/advice on long distance uni relationships? Do they ever really work?
My head is saying one thing and my heart is saying another. Any help would be much appreciated :)

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lHG.IRG

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lHG.IRG

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How do put girl at ease?

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How do put girl at ease?

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So there's this girl that I'm pretty sure is interested in me. However, she seems to be frightened of me or something. I've never been able to break down the barrier that seemingly exists between us and really get to know here. I've made attempts but they haven't really permanently changed anything. So I was wondering if there was anything I could do or say to put her more at ease around me?

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20 year marriage on the rocks

We live(d) an envied lifestyle with nice house, cars, 2 wonderfully successful kids 16 and 18, and outwardly have always shown that we care for each other. Inwardly too -- we are great friends and have tremendous respect for each other. My wife is an amazingly good person. No abuse, addictions, infidelity, anything ever even considered in our marriage.
Every few years we go through a rough patch where we annoy each other for a few weeks and then back to normal. Last year I traveled too much for my work and that created some extra distance. My wife fights depression sometimes and I spend a good deal of effort reassuring her that she is an awesome person doing an awesome job and I love her. She's described me as her rock which I am appreciative of.
In January she was seeming distant and I finally stopped traveling enough to push the topic and she basically said she felt nothing for me any longer. She was void of feelings for me and was just sticking around until the kids are out of high school. She didn't want to have sex anymore even though we have had sex of some sort around once a week for 20 years.
She has never been fully satisfied with sex and I knew this about her. She mentioned twice in her past that she was abused by her adopted brother when she was 7-8. I thought this may have something to do with it but it was never really discussed. She had sex with only 1 other boyfriend before we got married and they had issues with intimacy also. We saw a marriage counselor for the first time ever in February. He agreed this may all stem from the child abuse and asked her to see a specialist for this. After talking with the specialist a few times she basically refused to do EMDR treatment. The marriage counselor said there are other things we can work on if she is not ready to address that and that it may not be the root problem. We've been seeing him now for 6 weeks and things are worse than ever. In 2 months we went from a seemingly normal and enviable marriage to she wont hug, wont talk, just goes through the motions. She says she doesn't love me now. I can't even talk to her about trying. I'm not sure what to do.

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squirting

i have tried everything i know to do to get my wife to squirt and have not been able too . im hoping someone on here will suggest something maybe i havnt tried .

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Sexless marriage and the non-religious

Just an observation I wanted to share, but I've been looking for online resources on dealing with sexless marriage and by far the overwhelming majority of what I've found is from Christians, Christian organizations, Pastors and the like. Why is that?

I can understand why people with religious upbringings may be more likely to experience sexual dysfunction (just about every religion has an unhealthy pre-occupation with sex), but they also seem to be the only ones openly talking about it too.

I find it odd, and just thought I would say so.

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help!!

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help!!

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i have been talking to this girl for a while and she's a few years younger but i do really like her. we split up and when we were about to get back together she had seen that i had tried to talk to a few girls i used to talk to and she basically broke off any chance of us going back out. i feel bad becos she has had some horrible things happen to her before, i do really like her and don't want my stupid mistakes to ruin everything.

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not so nice parents

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not so nice parents

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I just need advice. I don't talk to my parents because they are horrible people and were very abusive. Yesterday I got a text from my dad saying they sent me a card and present for my birthday and to call when I receive it. I got it today and I don't know whether to phone. Last time I did it opened up the communication between us and they got nasty after a while. What should I do?

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Where has love and commitment gone? Who's to blame?

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Where has love and commitment gone? Who's to blame?

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I honestly believe most women today are not capable of true love or commitment, most of them seek out multiple sex partners and don't want to settle down with just one man. Instead they compare themselves to bonobos and have sex with multiple men, disposing one man after the other. Even the ones who are dating one man end up cheating or disposing the man when another they deem better comes along. I've heard a lot of men say "She's not yours, it's just your turn" and I think that sums it up perfectly. Also theres a reason 70% of divorces are initiated by women. I read a great article on this subject which i'll post here. Remember guys she's not yours, it's just your turn.

http://ift.tt/1bD2hLH

Oh, oh. It's happened. There's been a break-up, and now your fellow ultimate player is no longer together with his hot girlfriend. Which means only one thing to the predators circling her chum-infested aura: the hunt is on.

You're resisting, though. You've always thought she was cute. Busty, great smile, maybe she's got some dimples you find irresistible or you have a thing for the way she moves when she's playing disc. Because, of course, she plays. You all play. And maybe, you and him play together. That's the sticking point, isn't it? You're not quite sure if you should go after her, after all, how will he feel? You're not like, super close to him, but you've hung out. You kinda like the guy. And lately, since the break-up, he's been looking a little forlorn.

You hem and haw for a while, unsure of whether to go for it or not. Meanwhile, other guys are cozying up, taking test bites to see if they can approach for the kill, but so far she's politely resisting. It's been too soon. But at the very next disc party the ex checks out early, heartsick from watching dudes strike at his former girl all night. And somewhere between the third Long Island and the fourth Jaeger Bomb, you say "forget it" and approach.

Her face is flush with the new attention, her complexion rosy, her quivering smile betraying her own mix of rum and shots. As you approach, Timbaland's "Way I Are" blares from the house speakers and you blend bodies and start to grind. It's fun, it's comfortable, you've known each other since she was a freshman and you've gone out in big groups before. The song is bangin', as they say, and the flirting is fun.

And as your cheeks get closer and the Malibu bouquet of her breath whispers down your spine, you remember old John Lyly's Eupheus: the rules of fair play do not apply in love and war. Love, in these circles, is a math equation whose range is limited by the number of available mates at any one time. There are only so many hims and hers. And with so much time spent around disc and its people, meeting others outside the scene is tough. It requires effort. So as Timbaland fades to Rihanna and you begin to make out, looking for an appropriate exit to quit the evening and find comfort in each other, you tell yourself the harsh reality of our dating scene:

It's not your girl, it's just your turn.

And if it wasn't your Schwinn she's precariously trying to balance on as you coast downhill to her place, it'd be someone else's. You know that. The ex knows that. And somewhere in her subconscious, she knows as well. That's why he had to leave the party, that's why you had to act, and that's why you'll remember bitterly those sweet beginnings of your relationship the day you jet out of a club with your throat in knots and her arms wrapped around some buddy of yours. It's tough. But you'll get used to it. After all, another couple is looking like they've hit a rough patch, and you and she have always been close…

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lets play a game

when the time is right this weekend I'm going to try to have a reconnecting discussion with my wife.

I'm just going to ask her to have a glass of wine and sit down and talk. light hearted kind of talk and then ask if she wants to play a game.

the game is what we love about each other. and what we hate about each other.

then after we can play F you I want a divorce or wow I really missed you let go f our brains out.

what do you think any takers

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Sorry, another strange question:

This is really weird to me. Anyway, I like to have sex sometimes using a co$k strap that goes around my c$ck and b$lls. This gets me harder than hard. i.e ROCK hard.
My wife tells me she prefers when I'm "softer." I thought harder was always better. No?

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