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what's the worst thing a sibling has done to you?

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Im curious to find out other people's experiences with their siblings because MY brother and i never get along. not for a lack of trying but simply because we are totally different people and we are almost always at odds. the past couple of years have been the nail in coffin of our relationship and i can say i don't like being around him. he is untrustworthy and has no regard for other people's belongings. he doesn't have a job and doesn't seem to want one but is always asking for money. he's manipulative and lies constantly to get what he wants. what annoys me most of all is the fact that he takes my clothes and gives it to other people or looses it. i buy new clothes only to have them lost, destroyed or simply given to others. he is the worst king of room mate imaginable. sorry for the rant but please share your experiences and advice. cheers.

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What's wrong with me?!?

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So I hate to do this (write on some forum telling the Internet how "lame" my life is) but I have to know what I'm doing wrong.
I'm talking of course about relationships as at almost 17 I haven't had one not even a pointless one in primary school. I wouldn't say I'm a great looker but I'm decent. (I know 😷) I'm not weird or smelly or "dench" (muscular). I'm funny (😷) ,but some times controversial, and generally try to be nice. I don't stare at girls bodies as that's not really important (personality and looks 🙌). I'm hardly picky cause I don't see myself as a great choice for anyone. I think it could be because I'm that guy the one no one really knows well, sometimes the joker sometime the joke. I've heard all the let downs and now don't think anyone I talk to really wants to talk to me. If anyone has advice, been in this situation or justs wants to laugh at then reply.

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The guy I like blocked me on Facebook

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Basically, I'm into this guy. He knows I'm into him. Nothing's happened between us but my friends think he could be into me (for a number of reasons that aren't really relevant right now). We talk on Facebook relatively often and he's always friendly and chatty etc etc. However, we don't talk in real life mainly because I'm not as popular as him so approaching him in school would be social suicide. My school is incredibly cliquey, as you can see. His friends don't know we talk mainly because he'd probably get a lot of **** for talking to somebody from a lower social status.
Anyways, last night I messaged him whilst he was at a party. He didn't respond for a while so I tried to send a follow up message a couple of hours later but Facebook told me that I didn't have permission to send it. Basically, he blocked me (I tried searching for him in my friends list and he didn't show up- confirmation).
Now what I'm left wondering is why he blocked me? Was it because I sent him a message when his friends were around- maybe they saw it and he had to make up some bull**** excuse like 'oh yeah, she's always messaging me, she's so weird, she's basically obsessed with me', leading to him blocking me? Something like that? Because I genuinely don't understand why he would block me otherwise.
I'm trying not to care so much because my school is ****ing ridiculous with all its social rules and **** but it really does suck. The only consolation I have is that I'm off to uni in October so I don't really have to be around them for much longer, just until the end of June when I finish exams.
So yeah, if anybody would be willing to help me understand, that would be great. We both live up north and us northerners are supposed to be friendly, right? :lol: that's part of why I'm slightly confused.

Thank you!
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A crappy relationship mixed with mental health issues. Long, but please help.

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I'm a girl who's been dealing with quite severe depression and episodes of self harm and suicidality for the past couple of years. This time last year, I met a guy. He was awesome, and we'd spend hours chatting via messanger and he'd tell me I was special, amazing and hilarious. He trusted me with his issues. I admitted that I had feelings for him, and we kissed for a really long time (my first but not his, I'm in Yr 11 and him in Yr 13). This was late last year. Then, all of a sudden, he started seeing someone else and it broke me. I loved him and felt as though we really could be happy together, but he never really wanted a relationship. I was very emotional and had a relapse of clinical depression because of other home factors and just generally wasn't in a good place over Christmas. I argued with him loads.

Then, we managed to patch things up and he said he'd always be there for a chat about my depression/feeling suicidal. That made me happy, except whenever I tried to talk to him about how I was feeling, he'd make a joke out of it all and tell me to stop being so negative. I tried time and time again to explain that I was ill and the next 4 months were a whirlwind of me being strung along and thinking he still cared for me. Eventually, I couldn't deal anymore and gave him some space for a month.

When my depression had subsided, I tried to contact him but he didn't want to talk to me. He said he'd moved on and "preferred I'd remain a shadow." I didn't understand what he meant at all and he offered no explanation other than "piss off, my gf is all I need." I tried several times to speak to him over chat, but every time he'd lash out at me and at one point, called me a leech and said he didn't give a single f**k about me and was never going to see me again. It went from "I'm not gonna lose you" to "why won't you p*ss off I'll just block you."

Now, I'm so confused and know that any more attempts at contacting him are only going to push him further away, but I'm so ridiculously hurt, He thinks I'm whiny, immature and his girlfriend also hates me, when in reality, all I've done is care for another person. He says that I should find someone else who "isn't a stepping stone" and it hurt so much because that's not what he was to me. He trusted me and I trusted him, and I just don't know what to do. I blame myself. I have anxiety too, so that causes me to ruminate and panic. So I've convinced myself that he's right. I'm a leech and a waste of space, and expected him to be responsible for my happiness.

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Friends with benefits with your ex?

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Okay, so me and my boyfriend broke up a year ago. Since we broke up, all we have done is have sex. He constantly says he doesn't want a relationship with me, nor with any other girl whilst still being at uni. Yet, whenever we're together he asks if I can't get with any other boys, just him, for the duration of uni....
I know it's not going to end well, but we've broke it off so many times and we've both went straight back to each other. Just as I think I am over him and that it's purely just sex, I realise that it's much more than that. I know it sound stupid being so young and saying this but I really don't think I can cut him out of my life, he means a lot to me and I care about him probably too much.
Does anyone have any advice at all on what to do, or what to even say to him? I feel like every time I bring it up, he gets angry, we argue and don't talk. It's a constant cycle and I never know how to approach the matter :(

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Curfew at 21??!!!

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I'm a 21 year old female, 22 in 6 months. I'm absolutely sick of being treated like a baby. I don't necessarily have a curfew but if i come home after 1am they get so mad. Last night I got in at half 2 and they went mental my dad called me a whore and even hit me and my mum done nothing just yelled at me. I understand that they're just worried but i'm an adult now and they can't seem to let go of their little girl and its really frustrating me because none of my friends parents do this to them. Also they're very religious so of course that plays a huge part and the fact that they're very traditional and cultural. Anyway I go to university but live at home and work part time I pay my travel and phone bill and sometimes help out with paying bills at home yet they still treat me like i'm 10. Moving out isn't an option because that is too expensive. I've tried so many times way too many times to reason with them but they won't budge, i'm at my wits end. Any suggestion s? Please don't tell me it's their house their rules, I already know this.

P.S. what is the best way to move out at 21 in London? I work p/t and go uni although I really really really do not want shared accommodation. Ideally I want to be at home to save but I cannot stand it here no more.

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overprotective parents

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I am 21 and live at home with my mum and dad, I'm an only child and my parents have always been super protective but it's really starting to annoy me now. If I go out I have to tell them where I'm going, who with, how long i'll be out etc etc. I've told them how I feel about it but it doesn't change! help!

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Turn it in submission

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OK, so I overslept and submitted one of my assignments a few hours late through TURN IT IN. However when I did try to submit the file it would not work as it was well over the 20mb limit. This took me at couple of hours to fix. I've spoke to my lecturer and he said if I can get an email from the helpdesk proving I submitted it before the deadline I will not lose the 10%. The problem is I submitted it afterwards.

So annoyed at myself this has never happened before!

Do you think there is a way they can actually check if I did try to submit the file before 12? Or do you think they will look at the situation and not penalise me? As I did have genuine problems?

Feedback appreciated guys + any previous experiences with turnitin

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Boyfriend troubles!

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out 8 months now (my longest relationship) and we're both in love but he just doesn't make me happy anyone, what should I do? I don't know if im just sad or if it's him that's making me upset :/

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Should I go to this party?

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Basically it's this guys party tonight and we have spoken before yet I havent been invited when he has invited lots of people he has never spoke to (my sister).

My friend is saying I should just go and she will ask him if it's okay and another said he wants as many people as possible there. Although none of my really close friends are going and rather just close acquaintances with their group. I'm scared about getting left alone but still want to go..

So should I go? Ah

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Help, how do I turn back on?

This is the first time I've posted anything like this but I'm desperate! I've been married to my husband for nearly 10 years (this year is our 10 year) we have two small children 3years and 16months. I've lost all sexual attraction to my husband... I'm just not attracted to him at all. I believe it's mostly because I'm not satisfied in any aspect of our life. We haven't had sex in about 4 months... mostly my fault I'm usually just too tired, angry, frustrated, not appreciated, worthless and bitter to be in the mood... I hate being this way. I do love him, and I think he loves me... But I think it's turned into a really crappy dependency on each other for survival... I can't leave because I have no money, and honestly I don't know why he stayes... Maybe he likes having a live in maid... I don't know... How do I get the spark back? How do I let go of my resentment? I've tried talking to him but it's like talking to a brick wall that's more interested in wo rld news and cat videos his phone then listening to me or talking to me...
I'm honestly at a loss. Do I just suck it up pick a day or two a week and pretend to want to have sex? And just get it out of the way, I feel bad. And I know he gets mad at all the times I've rejected him in bed... But he doesn't even try to turn me on, its just waking me up with his hand in my croch and when that doesn't work, it's my nipples and by then I'm just annoyed... Help I'm so confused...

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I'm not gay or asexual but I'm beginning to find a relationships with women pointless

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Like, I can masturbate and enjoy it better. Being with a woman means being denied sex and sex isn't as good as wanking for me anyway. I have to share my ****, I love my place, but they will find some petty critique about a tiny bit of mess or try and make it like they want. Why do people have to treat you like you just stepped out of a leper colony for being single? I can't be ****ing arsed with them.

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Dark Hair "Gets Your Crazy Up"

On "The 100 Sexiest Male Actors of All Time" most of the men have dark hair.

IMDb: The 100 Sexiest Male Actors of All Time - a list by garivenbark

Works for me.

My Favorite from List:
Colin Farrell
Pictures & Photos of Colin Farrell - IMDb

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Someone was perfect for me but you were pre-occupied at the time

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I know that I can be attracted to different people, but there's not enough there mentally, or it's hard to get that real clicking thing. I think experience has taught me, and hindsight that this person was right for me. Great attraction, it felt unforced, natural. Only problem is other women in the picture at the time, and too many problems, financial and life problem, and couldn't handle the notion of commitment and thought by her advances she may have wanted a kid fairly soon, she maybe felt her biological clock ticking. But now I realise how much I liked and was attracted to her, how perfect the connection was, it was just natural. I could see myself living with her and can't say that for many people, well anyone really. I think that's rare. I'd love to know if she's gone off and had kids, or if she's still available. Basically I'm asking how to find her. I think she is private with web usage. I know her first name and profession vaguely, and where she works, s o it sounds easy but maybe she moved work , and she's not on the web.

Can anyone help me?

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Stay at home parent and division of chores

If one of you is a stay at home parent, how do you divide up chores? Is the working spouse expected to do any chores?

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