Hello everyone
I found out through Facebook that my partner of two years (we are not married) cheated on me for three months with a girl he met whilst flying back from a business trip.
The girl apparently had no idea he was in a relationship and told me that he said he was single and had been for a while. The strangest thing of all is he never slept with her, she has strong religious beliefs and said she would not have sex outside of wedlock. I have seen all their message exchanges where he is telling her "she is the woman of his dreams" how much he loves her and wants to marry her! He proposed to her several time in three months- she told me she declined each time as she felt it was too soon and he was really intense.
I don't understand why he did this - I gave him every thing he wants and needs and he wasn't getting anything from her. He has never proposed to me in two years yet he could propose to her several times in three months.
I don't know what to do. Do I forgive him as in his eyes he never really 'cheated' because they never had sex. Or do I leave him. He said he was confused and didn't know what to do.
Please advise.
I found out through Facebook that my partner of two years (we are not married) cheated on me for three months with a girl he met whilst flying back from a business trip.
The girl apparently had no idea he was in a relationship and told me that he said he was single and had been for a while. The strangest thing of all is he never slept with her, she has strong religious beliefs and said she would not have sex outside of wedlock. I have seen all their message exchanges where he is telling her "she is the woman of his dreams" how much he loves her and wants to marry her! He proposed to her several time in three months- she told me she declined each time as she felt it was too soon and he was really intense.
I don't understand why he did this - I gave him every thing he wants and needs and he wasn't getting anything from her. He has never proposed to me in two years yet he could propose to her several times in three months.
I don't know what to do. Do I forgive him as in his eyes he never really 'cheated' because they never had sex. Or do I leave him. He said he was confused and didn't know what to do.
Please advise.
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