My boyfriend and I have been together for over 8 months and a lot has changed since I first met him. When we first got together he would always message me first and always want to see me, whether it meant him missing work or missing seeing friends he would rather see me. He would compliment me all the time and take me out for meals and days out.
Since he lost his quite well paid job he has completely changed. He has stopped taking me out completely ( mostly because his new job has lower pay). I have to pay for everything we do together and he doesn't feel guilty about that at all. I've told him that you don't need money to have a good time and we go on walks and things like that occasionally but only if I suggest it and he usual moans.
If I want to talk to him I have to message him first and the conversation only keeps going if I ask the questions. If I ring him he asks why I've called, as if I need a reason to call him.
Recently he has bailed on me quite a lot. We would have arranged to see each other but either the night before or a couple hours before, he will say he's too tired. Today I was meant to see him and an hour before he said he's going out for a meal with his mum and her friend which I didn't think was normal for a boy of his age to rather go out with them rather than his girlfriend, especially as his mum and him don't get on so well.
I don't know what to do to get him back to how he was when I first met him... Have I done something wrong?
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