OK....one of my co-workers found out that his wife was in this deep deep fog so much that she moved out and in with her affair partner and if granted a fast divorce, she will give him house and custody as all she wanted in life then was her affair partner. She was so far gone that she didn't want to talk to her parents and siblings and said they are his too if he wanted.....lol.
He said he was hurt but had lost much of the love that was there that he might as well. So 3 months later after speedy divorce in which he got everything that she willfully signed, her affair is over....fog is gone....blah blah blah....tries to come home as he is mowing the lawn and she comes up as if nothing had ever happened and used the depression state as a last resort and means of trying to say it was not her real self making those decisions. So she wants everything back and the divorce cancelled on the grounds of a false mental state. Saying she would never give up the kids or her husband. His reply was magic. He told her "you must still be in a false state if you think I would take you back."
Well now she gets nasty saying he took full advantage of her mental state. Claiming the divorce is financially unfair as well as the 100% custody with visitation every few weeks and should not be held responsible for her decisions and choices. He then unloads about mental the anguish he goes through. He told he what he lives though daily. What he sees every few hours in his head with mind movies, what he feels about himself because another was chosen by his wife of who he loved very deeply over him because he "noticed" her and became infatuated with him. She then said she had nowhere else to go because she lied to her parents saying he beat her and they found out otherwise it wasn't true and doesn't want her at their home with her falsely created drama. So he said he will go and get the trailer out of storage and she can stay there in the driveway for a few weeks. She responded by saying she is not about to become trailer trash. He responded by saying "no you are much lower and should be considered lucky this is being offered."
She then asked if they could have a fresh slate and to start over. He again responds in an awesome way. "Isn't that what you did?...start over!" Man this guy is good. He told her that she moved on and so did he. She asked what that meant. He looked at his watch and gasped he needed to go inside and shower for his date with her best friend from college. He went on to tell her that the trailer offer was a test. He wanted to see how bad she wanted to come home and be around the family in a somewhat separated but still at home starting point. Her not willing to accept an offer like that and show what she would be willing to do spoke clear volumes for him. He was even going to offer to take turns sleeping in the trailer a few nights a week to see how she would take to being around the kids again. He wanted to offer a clean slate but he needed to find out.
She then said that she is willing to sleep in the trailer. He cut her off right there. He said "the offer was only available once just like my love for you and our marriage. I was willing to throw the whole thing a lifeline and you didn't even give it the time of day yet you come to me crying. Your crying is fake as is your attitude and way of thinking."
She had a new boyfriend a week later. Look at what he avoided!!!
That is priceless!!!
He said he was hurt but had lost much of the love that was there that he might as well. So 3 months later after speedy divorce in which he got everything that she willfully signed, her affair is over....fog is gone....blah blah blah....tries to come home as he is mowing the lawn and she comes up as if nothing had ever happened and used the depression state as a last resort and means of trying to say it was not her real self making those decisions. So she wants everything back and the divorce cancelled on the grounds of a false mental state. Saying she would never give up the kids or her husband. His reply was magic. He told her "you must still be in a false state if you think I would take you back."
Well now she gets nasty saying he took full advantage of her mental state. Claiming the divorce is financially unfair as well as the 100% custody with visitation every few weeks and should not be held responsible for her decisions and choices. He then unloads about mental the anguish he goes through. He told he what he lives though daily. What he sees every few hours in his head with mind movies, what he feels about himself because another was chosen by his wife of who he loved very deeply over him because he "noticed" her and became infatuated with him. She then said she had nowhere else to go because she lied to her parents saying he beat her and they found out otherwise it wasn't true and doesn't want her at their home with her falsely created drama. So he said he will go and get the trailer out of storage and she can stay there in the driveway for a few weeks. She responded by saying she is not about to become trailer trash. He responded by saying "no you are much lower and should be considered lucky this is being offered."
She then asked if they could have a fresh slate and to start over. He again responds in an awesome way. "Isn't that what you did?...start over!" Man this guy is good. He told her that she moved on and so did he. She asked what that meant. He looked at his watch and gasped he needed to go inside and shower for his date with her best friend from college. He went on to tell her that the trailer offer was a test. He wanted to see how bad she wanted to come home and be around the family in a somewhat separated but still at home starting point. Her not willing to accept an offer like that and show what she would be willing to do spoke clear volumes for him. He was even going to offer to take turns sleeping in the trailer a few nights a week to see how she would take to being around the kids again. He wanted to offer a clean slate but he needed to find out.
She then said that she is willing to sleep in the trailer. He cut her off right there. He said "the offer was only available once just like my love for you and our marriage. I was willing to throw the whole thing a lifeline and you didn't even give it the time of day yet you come to me crying. Your crying is fake as is your attitude and way of thinking."
She had a new boyfriend a week later. Look at what he avoided!!!
That is priceless!!!
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