Ok maybe the title is a little extreme but that's how I feel right now. I've been dating an awesome woman for a year now and she made me wait 5 month before we had sex. She's 8 years younger than me and while I was previously married for 11 years, she has only had one other sexual relationship in her life. My last marriage ended due to infidelity on my ex's part and during the last 3 years of our marriage, we had sex less than 10 times. A sexless marriage sucks and that's not something I want to go through again. With all that being said, sex with my fiance has been good for the most part. It's mainly just been standard intercourse with me giving her oral sex. She never gave me blow jobs in the beginning and I never pushed the issue. Still, I wondered why she never did that since I would always happily go down on her. We were getting intimate last night and I told her to give me a blow job. She looked at me like I just stole the last apple and she said sh e doesn't do that. She said it was demeaning and she would never "put that thing anywhere near my face". She got so worked up about it that she killed the mood and made me leave her apartment. I've been texting her all day and she hasn't responded because she says she needs time to herself. I'm so upset because I don't think giving a blow job is demeaning but she is acting like I demanded a blood diamond from her. I don't know if it's just my emotions getting the best of me but I'm strongly considering cancelling the wedding and just moving on with my life. I figure that if she is dictating what is right and wrong at this stage of the relationship. I may be already headed towards another sexless marriage. Still, I'm confused about what to do because I really love her. Has anyone been in a situation like this before? Any advice would be appreciated.
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