My husband and I have been trying to work things out after years of him taking me for granted I emotionally detached and we have fought a lot over the last year or so. I still have decided what I am going to do about the future, keeping all options open as I know I don't have to make plans right now.
He told me the other day (after having some drink) that he knows he has not respected me and he wants to be a better man ( i am not holding my breath on that one till I see action) and that he cannot live without me, blah, blah blah (sorry for the cynicism but I am jaded).
One thing that really irks me is that he rarely calls me when he is working or travelling. I am lucky to get one call a day or every two days. Mind you I don't call him either and if I am being honest I don't have much to say to him, he does all the talking (my problem). I have brought this up before and he says he is usually very wrapped up at work with meetings etc.
It bothers me as he is away 50-60% of each month as it is and works very late, so it is difficult to work on a relationship is you don't see each other or have much contact.
I can understand that but to me it means I don't cross his mind very much, the sad fact is he crosses mine too much. I know every couple is different but I would like to hear from working husbands especially as to how often you would call your wife during the day or does it matter?
He told me the other day (after having some drink) that he knows he has not respected me and he wants to be a better man ( i am not holding my breath on that one till I see action) and that he cannot live without me, blah, blah blah (sorry for the cynicism but I am jaded).
One thing that really irks me is that he rarely calls me when he is working or travelling. I am lucky to get one call a day or every two days. Mind you I don't call him either and if I am being honest I don't have much to say to him, he does all the talking (my problem). I have brought this up before and he says he is usually very wrapped up at work with meetings etc.
It bothers me as he is away 50-60% of each month as it is and works very late, so it is difficult to work on a relationship is you don't see each other or have much contact.
I can understand that but to me it means I don't cross his mind very much, the sad fact is he crosses mine too much. I know every couple is different but I would like to hear from working husbands especially as to how often you would call your wife during the day or does it matter?
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