Hello again. I sort of touched on this in one of my other posts about my new and fresh separation from my wife. It's been about 2 1/2 weeks so far. We are only communicating about financial stuff right now and every once in a while we'll text eachother asking how our day is going.
Anyway, some really good friends of ours are getting married in a little less than a month. The wedding is out of town. I am going up 2 days before the wedding with family and friends becaus there are some activities going on prior to their wedding day. My wife cant go up until the day of the wedding due to school obligations. We are all staying in the same hotel and recently my wife and I talked about us staying in separate rooms because we are separated (which I agree, I dont want to make things weird). I'm just really scared and nervous about being at a wedding with all of our old friends and her. We both agreed that we will not avoid eachother but we also agreed that we will not use this time to talk about our issues. The night/day is about our friends wedding not our issues. Any advice or encouragement on how I should act/feel while I'm there? I'm a groomsman and my wife is a bridesmaid and as far as I know we are walking down the isle together. I just dont know what to expect and my stomach is in knots just thinking about it. Some of my friends are telling me to just suck it up and act like I'm having a good time, act strong and confident but that is going to be HARD!! HELP!!!
Anyway, some really good friends of ours are getting married in a little less than a month. The wedding is out of town. I am going up 2 days before the wedding with family and friends becaus there are some activities going on prior to their wedding day. My wife cant go up until the day of the wedding due to school obligations. We are all staying in the same hotel and recently my wife and I talked about us staying in separate rooms because we are separated (which I agree, I dont want to make things weird). I'm just really scared and nervous about being at a wedding with all of our old friends and her. We both agreed that we will not avoid eachother but we also agreed that we will not use this time to talk about our issues. The night/day is about our friends wedding not our issues. Any advice or encouragement on how I should act/feel while I'm there? I'm a groomsman and my wife is a bridesmaid and as far as I know we are walking down the isle together. I just dont know what to expect and my stomach is in knots just thinking about it. Some of my friends are telling me to just suck it up and act like I'm having a good time, act strong and confident but that is going to be HARD!! HELP!!!
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