At what point can a reconciled marriage after infidelity be considered successful? How does a BS go from feeling the infidelity was/is a horrible black spot on the marriage to viewing it as a huge challenge that we overcame in our marriage, where love won in the end? A victory, a happy ending to the story of the marriage?
For the most part FWH and I are moving on, triggers far and few, living a marriage that is way better than pre-DDay, in a much happier, more intimate and fulfilling state but...
...every once and a while, the blues overcome me and all I can think of are those past years where the love he should have felt for me was all but non-existent; where dishonesty and deceit ruled the day.
How does the BS re-spin the ugly reality into the victory of a marriage redeemed?
For the most part FWH and I are moving on, triggers far and few, living a marriage that is way better than pre-DDay, in a much happier, more intimate and fulfilling state but...
...every once and a while, the blues overcome me and all I can think of are those past years where the love he should have felt for me was all but non-existent; where dishonesty and deceit ruled the day.
How does the BS re-spin the ugly reality into the victory of a marriage redeemed?
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